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There are vast amounts of information out there on the whole "recovery" process from alcohol and drugs. With this vast information, I believe, we often lose sight of what matters most.
Alcohol and drug use is a painful business. Because of the pain and struggle involved we may search endlessly for the one cause or cure to end the madness. We become afraid, and through this fear cling to any shred of evidence we can find to lift us from our state. Is there one way to succeed in "recovery"? Who is right? Who is wrong?
When it is all said and done, it does not matter which path you take to end alcohol or drug addiction. It's your choice, your life. Find a way. There is hope!
I know the potential each human has and can choose to use, if the desire is there and the right information and motivation is available. I must emphasize that I believe in the value of each person, and like myself, each must come to terms with who they are, what they desire, and their
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own way of finding it. AA and treatment can be beneficial in changing ones life from alcohol or drugs and for some - the only way. However, I have met many alcohol or drug users who just couldn't make it work. They believed in a different philosophy or life course. They wanted more than what was offered. For them, their beliefs and passion had them dancing to a different tune.
You are not a failure because you did not succeed in previous attempts at "sobriety". Look deeper. Find your passion. Raise your standards and begin to believe again...... HOPE!
If you have tried to quit alcohol or drugs, and just can't find that peace and happiness through traditional programs, keep believing. Open your mind and heart to what is possible and know that you are not alone. There are others who struggled also, but found a way to live again.
Timothy Welch, MA, PCC, NCC, MAC
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